Sometimes things can be really hard to deal with. You wonder why you must go through somethings. Life can feel unfair. I believe that everything fits into a bigger plan. We may not see the answer at the time. We may not see it this side of heaven. I have to believe God is in control. Life happens, both good and bad. You chose if you will get better or bitter. As I have continued to grow I have sometimes questioned, Why? Today I feel that all that I have been through has made me a strong person. I also feel I am very understanding and able to see other people's pain. Through my pain I can help others. I can listen and be there for others. Never give up!