Friday, September 23, 2011

Why Are Some People So Mean?

Why are some people so mean? My daughter recently stopped blogging and close her face book account because of mean hateful statements. I was shocked at some of the statements. Here are some of them.
  1. Why don't you f*** off and die
  2. You are a waste of space
  3. You are not even a girl you are an "it"
How can some people be so mean and hateful? Alice did not ask to be born with both sex organs. It just is a fact of her life. I asked her if she wanted me to remove her story from my blog and she said no. She is not ashamed of who she is. I am so hurt that people can be so mean. I hate the pain she endures because she was born different.  Hate is such an ugly thing and it cause so much pain, Again my question is why?


Bobbi said...

This world is filled with evil, hurtful people. Unfortunately Satan knows his time is short and he is hard at work trying to hurt as many good people as he can. I am so sorry Alice has to be hurt this way. She sounds like she is very confident in who she is, though. That's good. I agree, it's hard to believe that people can be so mean and hateful... but that's the world we live in. Give Alice a hug for me... and tell her not to worry, those people will some day have to answer for their actions. They will get what they deserve. Have a good weekend!!

Chatty Crone said...

First of all - she got these comments on blogger? I'm aghast. We are all born or have things or problems we don't need.

Let her start a new blog - different name - get rid of the old - and start fresh.

I don't get it at all.

Taylor Swift asked the same question.


Bluebird49 said...

Agree with Bobbi 100%! Satan knows he doesn't have long to make people more miserable! It is such a shame to hear this, and I feel so sorry for your daughter!

B M said...

The answer to the question is because most of what they are made up of is vulgar and they feel very little genuine love.
I hope Alice can get passed it, and know it is not she who has done anything wrong.

My ex used such language often enough.

Be well Wanda.

Mike Golch said...

that just sucks.I'm sorry that she got attacked by that crap.I usrge her to start blogging angain and have comment meoderation in place.I've gotten some crappy remarks and I just delete then they will noever see the light of day on my blogs.Big Time Hug.

Ethereal Highway said...

I think Alice is beautiful and a lovely person.

Just Be Real said...

I am sorry your daughter was subject to the evil of the world like this.

Munir said...

Oh my God. I have been feeling so depressed since last night. Then I read your blog. Why are people mean? Mean people can be mean without realizing that they could even be hurting loved ones. We do need to do something. I mean about letting mean people know what they do to people. Good has to win over Evil wether the Evil is the result of an evil action of others or the evil is innate. Have HOPE - - - please we need it !!!

Melisa said...

Maybe those people are so mean because they have very little love of their own an so aren't willing to give any of it to other people. It will never grow like that, so they are to be pitied, and hopefully forgiven.

I'm sorry Alice has had such a hard time. It would be a very difficult thing to live with even without the ignorance and meanness of others.

Chatty Crone said...

Good Morning - you won.

I tried to email you with the email address you send me and it came back twice.

Would you email me at

and then I'll get your address from there and would you also send me your mailing address.

I am going to wrap them this weekend and mail them on Monday the 3rd.

Congrats and sorry this is so hard.
Love, sandie

Kristin Dudish said...

This post made me cry. I don't know why people are so mean, but I am very proud of Alice (and you) for your continued strength and bravery.

Sending great big hugs with thoughts of kindness and peace to you both...


Anonymous said...

just seams my luck in life mom. people atack what they don't understand. with my emotional state over Ron i figure best to avoid posting right now.


Anonymous said...

In the end there is no explanation. Some people just act like ... some act hurtful with intend, some are just unable to feel empathy, some are simply caught in their upbringing and believes and so have no idea about what it can mean to be human, some are plain stupid.
There's a difference between those who are mean and there's a chance of them changing, and those who are evil, who seemingly will not change.
I once had a troll who was plain evil. I closed my blog for a while and thankfully the menace was gone. Normally they are looking for cheap thrills, for easy satisfying - all this does in no way minimize the hurt these bastards cause, i know. I do not want to "explain away" the behaviour.
All I know is, what works is to turn around, make a backup of the old blog, get the connections of the trusted bloggers, start new: different name. And do not use the blogrol, it's an invitation. I actually closed my blog beause the bastard started to hit at people on my blogrol.

And do not forget:

Never feed Trolls!
Ignore them fuckers!