Thursday, October 07, 2010

Busy Day


I had a very busy day today with my ex-husband sister. We went to see a friend of hers that lives about 2.5 hours away. We visited for awhile then drove back home. We then had dinner together. I had to come home and do some laundry for my trip tomorrow. The house isn't as clean as I wish it was, but I don't think I'll have time to finish it before my friend gets here tomorrow, because I have an early appointment. My best friend is concerned that I have been spending so much time with my ex-sister-in-law, because my ex-husband was such a "sick puppy". He is currently in prison serving a 50 year sentence for child molestation. My best friend is concern since I had very little contact with my sister-in-law and she is giving information to her brother. I hope I'm not being gullible but she has done nothing but help me the last few months. You see best friend has seen me make a lot of mistake with people, because I always want to find some good in them,then I get hurt. I don't know, but I'm not going to worry too much about it. I think my sister in law just feeels a little guilty because no one was with me when my son died. I most likely won't be on line for the next week since I'm spending it with my friend out of town. Take care everyone and I'll be thinking of you.

9 comments:

Anonymous said...

I hope that your sister-in-law is being genuine. I have a feeling she is. It sounds like she really cares about you and regrets not being there when Chris died. Although it is nice of your best friend to be looking out for you.

Have a great time on your trip! I'll be thinking of you too.

Wishing you well,
NOS

Alexandra MacVean said...

Travel safe, Wanda. And I'm with NOS, I do hope your sister in law is most certainly being genuine with you. YOu really need all the genuine in your life as much as possible! :)

Gaia said...

Wanda take great care and have a good time. Rest and relax is what you need. God Bless

Nikki (Sarah) said...

love the picture...have fun out there

RCUBEs said...

All of our concerns, and worries, we can give to the Lord. May the Lord protect you sister. Take care and be strong in His mighty power! Hope you will have a great weekend!

Wondering Soul said...

Dear Wanda,
Please be careful and ask for Wisdom and discernment.
I am thinking of you and hoping you will have a lovely weekend away from everthing. Sometimes a break is just what our hearts and minds need ad I so hope it is refreshing and positive.

Thinking of you lots and thank you so much for all your kind words.


Love

WS
x

Raine said...

stopped into say hi. I hope you have a great trip.

Ornery Owl of Naughty Netherworld Press and Readers Roost said...

It sounds like the sister in law is being genuine. But I know what you mean. I tend to let in people who turn on me. Like this recent situation. I was friends with the guy for 5 years and he totally turned on me like a rabid dog. I have too many other concerns to really let myself be torn up about it, but it does hurt anyway.
Best of luck to you.

Pia said...

hi wanda. what you're dealing with now with your SIL and what others are saying is something that i can relate to. somehow, we are on the same boat on this, only with different people involved. God impressed in my heart that He will defend me (i should stop trying to defend myself because He will do that for me). i know God will take care of us. He will not lead us to something that will destroy us because we try to see the good in people.

i said a prayer for you a while back. God sees and He knows how you're feeling this very moment. He is in control.