tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26976699.post8371010131396772334..comments2023-10-01T05:18:06.520-07:00Comments on Wanda's Wings: Dealing With My GriefWanda's Wingshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02823654163692296686noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26976699.post-71456149916317961582011-02-25T05:32:32.245-08:002011-02-25T05:32:32.245-08:00Thinking of you and holding you in my prayers, Wan...Thinking of you and holding you in my prayers, Wanda.Mollyehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11659366521767357537noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26976699.post-25292548303193393312011-02-23T03:36:52.272-08:002011-02-23T03:36:52.272-08:00I don't think it would be possible to feel any...I don't think it would be possible to feel any way other than how you feel. I don't think I would survive. I do think you are strong. You need to take care of yourself. Don't expect yourself to be some sort of super human. <br />I had a friend who drowned a number of years ago. Her mother didn't start to feel any peace until a few years had passed. The truest thing seems to be that you don't get over it, you get used to it. I know it's not your style, but I say anyone who tells you to "get over it" is asking for a kick where it counts most!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06857378831052530432noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26976699.post-46161634106693853032011-02-23T01:39:59.586-08:002011-02-23T01:39:59.586-08:00((((Wanda))))
There is no time table dear one.((((Wanda))))<br />There is no time table dear one.Just Be Realhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15815210059310140144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26976699.post-78515227264856799132011-02-22T21:36:27.084-08:002011-02-22T21:36:27.084-08:00A year is nothing in grieving time. You will heal ...A year is nothing in grieving time. You will heal at your own pace. THere is no time limit on how long we grieve. (((((Wanda))))))Rainehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17088907661394233572noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26976699.post-73794888693234290602011-02-22T17:51:05.678-08:002011-02-22T17:51:05.678-08:00I agree with the quote you used-- the death of a c...I agree with the quote you used-- the death of a child is probably the hardest thing to deal with. I can only imagine what you are going through. But I know that grief takes time and people grieve in different ways. I don't think it's abnormal that you still feel so strongly about what happened.<br /><br />You say you feel you should be stronger than you are-- look what you've gone through! You've been through so much and you've made it out the other side. That takes incredible strength. I think you are stronger than you realize.<br /><br />Wishing you well,<br />NOSAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26976699.post-21695791484575222172011-02-22T15:39:11.489-08:002011-02-22T15:39:11.489-08:00Wanda,
Everyone deals and copes with grief in thei...Wanda,<br />Everyone deals and copes with grief in their own way, and for some, it takes a bit longer. Don't be so hard on yourself. You know what you need, and if that means a few more baby steps along the way, then so be it!! We are all here for you and love you much!<br /><br />Hugs!! =)Alexandra MacVeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17317852980496492650noreply@blogger.com