tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26976699.post3881986668451620772..comments2023-10-01T05:18:06.520-07:00Comments on Wanda's Wings: Trigger warning The Molested ChildWanda's Wingshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02823654163692296686noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26976699.post-80909699140870405602007-03-19T16:50:00.000-07:002007-03-19T16:50:00.000-07:00I echo what the other blogpals say. You cannot bla...I echo what the other blogpals say. You cannot blame yourself for this. <BR/><BR/><BR/>You are so brave to have shared all of these big things here. It is my hope that sharing your narrative will help you heal. But it is most important, MOST IMPORTANT, that you do not second guess yourself or add further self-blame to this traumatic story.<BR/><BR/>Sending you hugs too.Dr. Debhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06340730498047128203noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26976699.post-42052697535871258662007-03-18T10:46:00.000-07:002007-03-18T10:46:00.000-07:00Where are you Wanda?Where are you Wanda?Medicoglia, RNhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01894674563874832457noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26976699.post-26737552138434076942007-03-14T06:11:00.000-07:002007-03-14T06:11:00.000-07:00are you okay Wanda?Know that I am thinking of you ...are you okay Wanda?<BR/><BR/>Know that I am thinking of you and hoping all is okay.<BR/><BR/>HugsTracyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04095334529245360072noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26976699.post-10847207053464136282007-03-14T00:14:00.000-07:002007-03-14T00:14:00.000-07:00you are brave but i know it hurtsyou are brave but i know it hurtsjumpinginpuddleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02701383598841540578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26976699.post-56611433748174642622007-03-13T22:18:00.000-07:002007-03-13T22:18:00.000-07:00Hey wanda I hopeyou are doing ok!! just wanted you...Hey wanda I hopeyou are doing ok!! just wanted you to knwo I am thinking of you. Take careAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26976699.post-40614371866488043702007-03-13T17:47:00.000-07:002007-03-13T17:47:00.000-07:00That was a brave and courageous post you put up th...That was a brave and courageous post you put up there! Admitting what happened to you, to yourself and us, is a very big step forward! We are so sorry for the pain but know you did all you could, as you said, the normal you grew up learning was all you knew. We had the same problem.<BR/><BR/>hugs and blessings<BR/><BR/>keepersAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26976699.post-6506627875486072462007-03-12T20:56:00.000-07:002007-03-12T20:56:00.000-07:00I posted a long thought out response to this once ...I posted a long thought out response to this once already. Did blogger eat it?Rainehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17088907661394233572noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26976699.post-59995834903332325052007-03-12T20:16:00.000-07:002007-03-12T20:16:00.000-07:00How's it goin over there Wanda?How's it goin over there Wanda?Jadehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02395947590555462423noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26976699.post-73756167991759386262007-03-12T11:56:00.000-07:002007-03-12T11:56:00.000-07:00hey girl ... you ok?hey girl ... you ok?Dreaming againhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15717590226520457326noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26976699.post-5243462034854965052007-03-09T10:04:00.000-08:002007-03-09T10:04:00.000-08:00Prison is a good start to stopping that particular...Prison is a good start to stopping that particular one. Getting your children into therapy so they have help in dealing with their issues now if they are willing to do so is also another way to stop it. There was a two generation predator in my family. He got stopped in prison where he passed away. That finally stopped him. My sister and neice and nephew are doing well now. That is a horrific nightmare of a story that I am willing to share if you ever wanna talk. I also unwittingly brought one home to my daughter and ended up putting him in jail. He didnt stay there long enough but at least he now knows that there is a danger from enraged mothers......Unfortunately predators do exactly this. Getthemselves in postions of trust to enable themselves access to their victims. They dont run around waving flags and signs saying "this is what I am and this is what I am gonna do"Rainehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17088907661394233572noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26976699.post-36072301196493009492007-03-09T08:03:00.000-08:002007-03-09T08:03:00.000-08:00It is hard but you are taking steps in the right d...It is hard but you are taking steps in the right direction. I hope not to sound trite but I think you will actually be stronger by facing this.Cie Cheesemeisterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14871507564733240927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26976699.post-1594874572205232722007-03-08T20:55:00.000-08:002007-03-08T20:55:00.000-08:00Wanda...I'm really proud of you for getting that o...Wanda...I'm really proud of you for getting that off you chest. You let out some pretty powerful stuff right there, and in my opinion thats where healing begins. You stopped running from it long enough to let some of it out, and that took a lot of strength.<BR/><BR/>I hope with time,counseling, and prayer you can come to the point in which you realize that you as a human you can not be responsible for other peoples wrong doings. <BR/>You acted immediately after discovering what was going on, which was the best and only thing you could do at that point. <BR/><BR/>I think it has taken a lot of strength to let this out Wanda, and I'm really glad that you chose your blogging friends as a positive outlet. ((((((Wanda)))))Jadehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02395947590555462423noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26976699.post-46466475265607825922007-03-08T17:50:00.000-08:002007-03-08T17:50:00.000-08:00honey you can't blame yourself if that is what you...honey you can't blame yourself if that is what you are doing. <BR/><BR/>I am glad he will be doing time and won't be able to hurt yet more people<BR/><BR/>I am very sorry that you are having this pain and anger in your life. <BR/><BR/>Take care of yourself ok<BR/><BR/>hugsAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com