tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26976699.post3077475828731253307..comments2023-10-01T05:18:06.520-07:00Comments on Wanda's Wings: Wanda's Wingshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02823654163692296686noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26976699.post-11711157705329215322012-05-29T08:10:03.195-07:002012-05-29T08:10:03.195-07:00This is why I stopped getting into romantic relati...This is why I stopped getting into romantic relationships. I couldn't stop choosing abusive people. I think that maybe some of us really aren't meant for that kind of relationship.<br />My parents weren't abusive in the same ways that yours were, but they were inadvertently emotionally abusive. They were very obsessive and controlling. I tried very hard to break that pattern with my son. Because I was untreated bipolar and borderline when he was younger, I did not entirely succeed. Once I got treatment, I started to do better. It was always my goal.<br />I am wondering how things are going with you. I know it's been a tough go of late. I hope you and Alice are ok.Ornery Owl of Naughty Netherworld Press and Readers Roost https://www.blogger.com/profile/07596105116325246476noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26976699.post-34299807656399086922012-05-29T02:12:47.826-07:002012-05-29T02:12:47.826-07:00Hi Wanda,
It has been forever since i have been o...Hi Wanda,<br /><br />It has been forever since i have been on blogger, but now i am back. Glad to see you are still writing! It is funny, my blog today was about purpose. Strange that i come here and you are talking on that very topic. I think it is wonderful. You are such a wonderful lady, and have so much to give to others who need healing. I know that what you have to offer is invaluable! Hugs my blogger friend.Tracyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04095334529245360072noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26976699.post-54023140167317863272012-05-24T03:10:49.523-07:002012-05-24T03:10:49.523-07:00I love you, and I admire you.I love you, and I admire you.Denisehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09275456448997619944noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26976699.post-41811530287702664422012-05-21T04:27:01.916-07:002012-05-21T04:27:01.916-07:00More hugs today coming....More hugs today coming....Just Be Realhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15815210059310140144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26976699.post-70364125159719905122012-05-19T08:04:05.121-07:002012-05-19T08:04:05.121-07:00Amen! With God all things are made possible....wha...Amen! With God all things are made possible....what I cannot do He will do through me....all things are made possible to whom who believes....I too broke the cycle of child abuse.....together bound by the cords of HIS love we can do all thingsAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26976699.post-22149672501578822122012-05-18T06:41:23.119-07:002012-05-18T06:41:23.119-07:00We're so proud of you! More than words can say...We're so proud of you! More than words can say. We will support you in whatever way you need because we believe in you!Love you sister.Stefanihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00811638302061802890noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26976699.post-27886155991328586672012-05-18T05:58:52.469-07:002012-05-18T05:58:52.469-07:00It's wonderful that you were able to articulat...It's wonderful that you were able to articulate your purpose. It's something I have struggled with for some time. I have always admired Jesus and Paul's clarity of purpose.Wandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07438544740170524813noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26976699.post-37195099764161967702012-05-18T04:27:18.580-07:002012-05-18T04:27:18.580-07:00Yes, Wanda you have come a very long way. I am pr...Yes, Wanda you have come a very long way. I am proud of you. Blessings.Just Be Realhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15815210059310140144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26976699.post-6029971969552418882012-05-17T18:26:38.888-07:002012-05-17T18:26:38.888-07:00First of all if you did not abuse your children an...First of all if you did not abuse your children and I know you didn't - then you stopped the pattern of abuse.<br /><br />You choose to do that.<br /><br />Wanda - did I ever tell you that I am a PAST victim of child abuse. Mine was more verbal then physical - but it hurts the same - at least to your psychologically. <br /><br />Now I spent years getting help - and growing and with the Lord's help I think I am a stronger woman today because of all what I have come through.<br /><br />But the sentence you said about "Part of the abuse damage is never knowing love" - that is the one thing I still fight.<br /><br />It is hard to believe when you are damaged by abuse that you are lovable. You want someone to come in and love you and you think that it will save you.<br /><br />I think the day had to come when I had to say to myself - I am loved - but not in the way I think I need to be loved. The way I think I need to be loved doesn't exist.<br /><br />I could go my whole life looking for that - or I could try to let it go - and I did say try - as I still fail at times - and accept what good things I do have instead.<br /><br />Good things you say - 20 years ago that was me.<br /><br />I started a gratitude journal and have MADE myself write 5 things every day I am thankful for. Some days it was just that I got up to another day.<br /><br /> Well let me tell you 20 years later I am a very grateful person. No, maybe not loved like I want - but I am loved as God wants.<br /><br />I'm rambling but that sentence just struck at my heart. I understand it so well.<br /><br />Love, sandieChatty Cronehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02232040517217024681noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26976699.post-72271642405516478922012-05-17T14:35:22.214-07:002012-05-17T14:35:22.214-07:00and Wanda...you always shine always in spite of ev...and Wanda...you always shine always in spite of everything you go through. A great example of faith and courage. Sending you a ton of hugs.Nikki (Sarah)https://www.blogger.com/profile/13731200601840020130noreply@blogger.com